There are conversations we must have very 'early' with our digital age children else the internet and seemingly confused society will school them wrongly for us. Most children believe in their parents as the first role model. They deify their parents and believe daddy and mommy can never be wrong. The family is the bedrock of the society and from the home front, as parents, we must be intentional with what we 'show' our children (in our behaviors) than what we 'tell' them.
Children learn more from what you do than what you say because they love to mimic our actions.
#JosephEdgar a.k.a #DukeOfShomolu dropped the conversation he had with his teenage son and you may wish to take a cue from some of them.
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At your age they are a distraction, avoid them.
As you have entered this one, sort it out as a man, don't involve me
Women are very complex even at old age they really don't understand themselves, so a 17 year old girl would be in a haze of confusion about her sexuality, her personality , her outlook and you will just be like a piece of paper thrown into the whirlpool.
Women are Gods most beautiful creatures, God does not joke with them so tread with caution, make them no go pray bad prayer for you
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You are 17, it' is good that you are getting burnt now, because it will happen severally start getting used to it because like most men, you will most likely suffer in woman's hand.
Try to pull out emotionally even though I suspect it would be a very difficult struggle for you at your age.
Engage and communicate with her as often as you can possibly with the aim of fostering a better understanding of who you are and what role you have come to play in this world
This is puppy love. Try not to take it too seriously as they mostly fade away. If she is not talking to you be happy and face football, there are many more ahead of you.
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You are lucky to have me as your papa, I will guide you and even help you toast some, just enter University first.
Finally, if you are gambling with my money with this thing, kindly calculate the school fees I have paid at N1. 2m per term for the three years you have spent in senior secondary sch and realize that I will use efcc puruse you if you fail because of this transaction.
A word is enough for the wise.... 😀😀😀
Duke of Shomolu
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